Beauty & Self Image

This week, the topic of beauty has been on my mind. I see girls and boys being hated on for how they look on social media, and this NEEDS to end. It is not okay for anyone to be harassed for how they look. Girls- you are beautiful with or without makeup, never forget that. Boys- You are handsome, and never forget that.

Everyone is beautiful. Yes, every single human walking on this Earth. I have struggled with this thought for a very long time, because I didn’t  believe it about myself. For years, I was picked on and told how ugly and fat I was. It ruined my self esteem and my self confidence. This post is not about my self esteem, but all of yours. I promise you that no matter what, you are beautiful.

Looks don’t always matter either, your personality is what matters. As you age, your  look changes, but your personality will still be glowing. It is so important to be humble, loving, and kind to every person you meet. Whether you believe it or not, personality matters.

It doesn’t matter if you’re skinny or fat, freckles or not, dimples or no dimples, brown/blonde/black/red hair, short or tall. Everyone is beautiful or handsome.

Self image is a thing that multiple humans struggle with. Whether we were bullied or not, self confidence is very low in many individuals. For me, I know that I often compare myself to girls at my school, or on instagram or on magazines. They are so pretty, and I look like me which makes me feel worse about myself. This needs to change.

So many teenagers do what I do, which is not healthy for us. We think that is what everyone should look like, and we begin to hate the way we look. Please believe me when I say, that no matter what, you are good enough. You are enough.

A negative image of yourself can also lead to many physiological issues. My therapist is helping me develop a better love for myself, and I will share some tips that she has told me.

1. You are always enough, no matter what anyone says.
2. You don’t need boys or girls to tell you how pretty you are to feel good about yourself.
3. You are human and everyone is different
4. You are loved by so many, regardless of what you look like.

This post is for girls and guys, because both genders struggle sometimes with body image. I promise each and everyone of you, that I am always here to talk if you need some help, or just to talk about life. I believe that I have gone through all the crap that I have, to help people. Sharing my story to those who need it, can help.

If you’d like to hear more about that, I will be posting a video on my youtube channel hopefully next week sharing my experiences- which I will post a link in a new post.

My friends, I am here for all of you no matter what. Beauty is in everyone. I am here to talk, and I judge no one. You can reach me through Instagram DM’s or if you comment, they will be private. I will tell no one, unless I believe that you are in trouble.

Until next time my friends, thank you.